For that we have each other…

The first time I heard Andra Day’s song, Rise Up, I immediately thought of it as a survivor’s anthem. I heard the refrain, and I thought about my daily struggles, and the effort I make to rise up and face each challenge.

Then I saw the video, and I realized that I was so caught up in my own drama, I hadn’t even noticed some of the lyrics. Clearly this is a song of solidarity, but I hadn’t heard the “we” because I was too focused on the “I”. As I watched the video, I immediately thought of all the things my husband does every day to help me find the strength to keep on keeping on.

“You’re broken down and tired of living life on a merry go round, and you can’t find the fighter. But I see it in you, so we gonna walk it out and move mountains” from Rise Up sung by Andra Day

I was very fortunate to have people to take care of me during the early phases of my recovery. I can’t imagine what I would have done without my husband, my mother, and my father.

I know it hasn’t been an easy year for them. They have had to take on more responsibilities, and they have had to make sacrifices to make sure I have what I need. In fact, even now that I am back at work and getting stronger by the day, they are still making little daily sacrifices to make sure I am cared for and comfortable. For that, I am so grateful. So I am going to post the video here for all of the people who are caring for me and my fellow SCT survivors.

We will rise up!

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A Box of Sunshine

It can be hard to know what to do when a friend is going through a difficult recovery. Many of my friends sent flowers, and those were appreciated. But then one rainy winter afternoon the doorbell rang, and when I opened the door, I saw a box.

It had been sent by a friend from grad school. While we have kept up on Facebook, we haven’t actually seen each other in almost twenty years.  As I opened the box, I felt a rush of excitement. She had cared enough to take time out of her busy schedule to send a care package to me. I had so much fun emptying the box and seeing each surprise revealed. It hadn’t cost a fortune to buy the random assortment of treats, but each one represented love and goodwill. Everything in the box was yellow or orange! How did she know that I needed a bit of sunshine in the middle of this cold, dark winter?

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I truly have some of the sweetest and most creative friends on the planet!

So, if you have a friend who is in the middle of a difficult recovery, here is an idea. Send them a box filled with sunshine.

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