I thought this would be a good time to reflect on my recovery and to remind myself how far I have come in a relatively short period of time. These are posts from my CaringBridge site. I set it up prior to my surgery to help me communicate with my friends/family. Hope this is of some help to those of you who are just beginning this journey.
January 3 – Three Weeks Post-Op
Three weeks after my surgery… looking back on the progress I have made. The doctors took out the tumor and parts of my spine. They added titanium rods for stabilization and rearranged my back muscles to provide added support. My incision seems to be healing well… and slowly I am getting back to normal. All of your love and support has been amazing! Thank you!
January 8 – Three and a Half Weeks Post-Op
Celebrating post-op milestones … before the surgery I was running two miles a day before work and often walking another mile or two later in the day… since my surgery walking has been a challenge and running is not even an option… so today I am proud to announce that I walked a mile without the help of my walker or cane. It wasn’t pretty, it wasn’t fast, it wasn’t pain free… and it doesn’t mean I am giving up the walker just yet… but still, it is a huge milestone in my journey to recovery. Now I will crawl back in bed and build up strength for the next victory.
January 12 – One Month Post-Op
Week four post-op update: the biggest accomplishment of the week has been my daily 1 mile walks – sometimes with and sometimes without a walker – I am still having to spend most of my time lying down (largely due to the cerebral spinal fluid leak that I am still dealing with) – and time on the computer or reading has to be limited. My pain levels are improving, and I am gradually working my way off of the strong pain medications, but I still cannot stand the pain if I sit too long or in certain positions. I have to be careful with every movement and even sleep in very specific positions… but it is getting better with each day. Next week I will be working on trying to get back some of my independence since my husband is now entering a very busy cycle will be working almost every day until late at night.
Since some of you have asked, I do think I am ready for short visits from friends, but with the flu “epidemic” please try to avoid bringing me an unintended gift. If I got sick right now, it would really slow my recovery down. I am doing everything in my power to try to stay healthy.
Again, I appreciate all of the encouragement, flowers, food, cards, and other tokens of your friendship and concern! You have all been amazing!
January 17 – Week Five Post-Op
Week five post op update – this has been a frustrating week – as I back off of the opioid pain meds, I feel like I have hit a brick wall in my recovery. I can’t find a comfortable position, and the pain/discomfort is exhausting. I have to continually remind myself that I have made tremendous gains. Yesterday I walked 1.3 miles (slowly – cautiously… but I did it) and I am regaining my independence (I can make myself a cup of tea and take a shower … but shoes and socks are still a challenge). Yesterday was particularly frustrating, so I was extremely happy when these beautiful flowers arrived to brighten my day. They were just what I needed to lift my spirits! Thank you to all of my family and friends – thank you for cheering me on! You are the greatest!